Category Archives: Sex

Make the Call: Strikeouts or Homeruns?

Phones in the bedroom… yes or no? Let me tell you about a couple’s recent experience that helped them decide whether keeping a phone on their bedside table was a good idea or not. (This is a true story though … Continue reading

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Why Porn Will Kill Your Sex Life

We’re not going to approach this topic by appealing to your morality, even though the overwhelming majority of married, porn users readily acknowledge it’s wrong. From a morality point, nothing else needs to be said: when we feel something is … Continue reading

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Communication at its BEST!

Everyone knows open communication is the key to a great marriage. And, everyone knows that sex is critical to an invigorating marriage. However, only smart couples know that openly communicating about sex is one of the best indicators of a … Continue reading

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Better Sleep … Better Sex!

Recently, we experienced an extremely difficult three-week period as a result of Carrie’s acute insomnia. During this time, Carrie suffered from anxiety attacks, depression, negative thoughts, and feelings of hopelessness. It was terrible. Then, after a change in medication, sleep … Continue reading

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The Couple that Plays Together Stays Together

“The couple that plays together stays together.” This proverb packs a lot of truth! Playing and having fun together helps keep the friendship bond strong between a husband and wife. Life requires a couple to take on plenty of responsibilities: … Continue reading

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How Carrie & Jim Regained Sexual Intimacy After Her Aneurysm

Part 3 by Carrie Four and a half months ago, I underwent a 7-hour brain surgery to repair a brain aneurysm.  I am thankful to God for the many healthcare professionals whose expertise helped me through the surgery and recovery. … Continue reading

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Two Important Keys to Marital Intimacy During Extended Illness!

Part 2 by Carrie How do a husband and wife keep their sexual relationship healthy during times of serious illness especially when the recovery takes time?  Here are two keys Jim and I have learned are very important! 1.  Regular … Continue reading

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Junk Food and Sex (post by Jim)

Junk Food is, well, …junk. When we could be dining on sumptuous, home cooked meals, many of us pick up and eat junk food on the way home, and then find we’ve lost our appetite for the real meal. This … Continue reading

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Sexual Frustrations (post by Jim)

Sexual frustrations can be harnessed. Honest! We all secretly wish (speaking only for the guys, now) that sexual frustrations wouldn’t exist at all! Imagine if: your sexual desire would be switched on only with thoughts of your wife your marriage … Continue reading

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Put some fun back in your life

Sex is meant to be fun! The therapists, technicians, and scholars who have studied the dynamics and complexities of the sexual experience between a husband and a wife will all concur that sex in marriage is complicated! Seeing that sex … Continue reading

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